Real life with pets, love and loss
Life with pets – the messy, beautiful, emotional kind
The Pet Mum is a space for anyone who’s ever loved an animal deeply. I share real life with my pets, the comfort they bring, and the stories that stay with us long after the moment has passed.

A little corner for animal lovers
Hi, I’m Paula – cat mum to seven, dog mum to Casper, and someone who knows just how much animals can carry us through. This is where I share honest moments, everyday chaos, pet comfort, and the deep connection that makes them family.
Real Life with Pets
Everyday moments, funny interruptions, little habits, and the joy of sharing life with animals.
Stories That Stay With You
Reflections on love, comfort, mental health, grief, and the animals who leave pawprints on our hearts.
Pet Care
Gentle, practical posts on keeping pets safe, calm, and cared for through everyday life.
Start here
If you’re new here, these are a lovely place to begin.

Bonfire Night: Helping Pets Stay Calm
Every year, as Bonfire Night rolls around, our house goes into “calm mode.” 🎆 Fireworks might be fun for people, but for many animals they’re…

Poppy Turns Nine: Still the Princess of the House
Can you believe Poppy is nine today?Nine! Where has the time gone? Our beautiful Ragdoll hasn’t changed a bit when it comes to personality, still…

Tiny & Kiki Turn Two: Growing Up, But Still Up to Mischief
It’s hard to believe Tiny and Kiki are two today.Two! How did that happen so quickly? They’ve both grown up so much this past year,…

Five Years of Casper: The Little Gremlin Who Stole My Heart
Today, my little gremlin turns five. 🎉 Five years of tiny paws padding across the floor, five years of mischief and cuddles, and five years…
Meet the gang
From cats with big personalities to Casper and the everyday moments that make a house feel full of life, these are the animals behind The Pet Mum.

Come and say hello!
You can find The Pet Mum on Instagram and Facebook. I’d love to hear your stories of life with animals.
