Real life with pets, love and loss

Life with pets – the messy, beautiful, emotional kind

The Pet Mum is a space for anyone who’s ever loved an animal deeply. I share real life with my pets, the comfort they bring, and the stories that stay with us long after the moment has passed.

Paula with her pets at home

A little corner for animal lovers

Hi, I’m Paula, cat mum to seven, dog mum to one very optimistic Pomchi called Casper, and someone who has completely and willingly lost control of her own home.

This is The Pet Mum. It’s real life with real animals – the funny moments, the chaotic ones, the quiet ones, and the ones that stay with you forever.

Tiny thinks he runs this house. Miki thinks the neighbourhood is his. Thomas thinks your lap is his. Casper thinks everyone is his best friend.

They’re all wrong. They’re all right. We wouldn’t have it any other way.

Real Life with Pets

The funny interruptions, the chaos, the mealtimes where everyone appears from nowhere, and the moments that remind you why you’d never change any of it.

Stories That Stay With You

The ones about love, loss, and the animals who leave pawprints on your heart long after they’re gone.

Pet Care

Practical, gentle posts on keeping your pets safe, calm and cared for through everyday life, written by someone who has learned most of it the hard way.

Start here

If you’re new here, these are a lovely place to begin.

Meet the gang

From cats with big personalities to Casper and the everyday moments that make a house feel full of life, these are the animals behind The Pet Mum.

Come and say hello!

You can find The Pet Mum on Instagram and Facebook. I’d love to hear your stories of life with animals.